DIOCESE PARISHES EDUCATION VOCATIONS PROTECTING CHILDREN OFFICES and AGENCIES GIVING
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Statistics tell us that most parents think that it's more difficult to be a parent now than when they were kids. Many parents don't have enough time for family life and feel that society isn't supporting the values for which the family stands. Yours is the responsibility to help form young people into healthy, faith-filled, Christians in a world with competing values. As a parent, you are called to be one of the guideposts that kids need as they try to find their Vocation in life. For some parents that call is to be the mother or father of a priest, deacon, or religious! Consider the mystery of God's plan for your child's life!

The ABCs of Fostering, Supporting, and Nurturing Vocations within the Home

  • Answer your children's questions about priesthood or religious life; never discourage them or ridicule them if they bring it up. 
  • Bring your family to the next ordination Mass. Look under events.
  • Challenge teens and young adults to consider a Church-related vocation. Encourage them to participate in at least one special vocation event (ordination, discernment retreat, Encounter with God's Call, etc.).
  • Cultivate an attitude of service by responding as a family to the needs of others. Seek out those in need and find ways to care for them.
  • Discuss your own vocation to family life, explaining that God calls some people to priesthood or religious life, some to marriage, and some to life as single laypeople. You can talk about vocations firsthand!
  • Encourage your children to be involved in the liturgical life of the parish as servers, lectors, musicians, etc. (and see to it that they get there on time).
  • Find opportunities to affirm the gifts and talents of your children, and help them relate their gifts to various career and life choices (including priesthood and religious life).  
  • Guide your junior high child to pray that he or she might discover and use the gifts God has given.
  • Have a priest come and bless your home.
  • Include the diocesan vocation prayer in your personal and family prayer.
  • Invite a priest, brother, or sister to dinner or to an outing with your family.
  • Join together in prayer as a family; include a short vocations prayer when you pray before meals.
  • Keep an eye open for TV shows and movies that present Gospel-centered role models. Watch them with your children and engage in a discussion.
  • Let your children see their Baptism pictures. Have the children make and send a card or note to the priest who baptized them promising him they will pray for them.
  • Make time for teenagers in your life: your children and their friends, nieces and nephews, babysitters, etc.
  • Name the gifts of each family member on their birthday. Express gratitude for these gifts.
  • On the date of your child's baptism, talk about the life of the saint for whom the child is named (or the saint's day it is). There is plenty of information about the background of saints on the internet. The saints are people from all walks of life who tried to make a positive difference in the world, a goal as real today as it was for the saints.
  • Pray for the seminarians of the diocese by name (you can get their names, bios, and birthdays on this website); you may want to "spiritually adopt" one of them.
  • Quiz your children and discuss with them stories of calls in Scripture (e.g., Mary's response to God in Luke 1:26-39, Jesus' calling the Apostles in Mt 4:18-22, etc.).
  • Remember in prayer by name those who minister to your family and include in your family prayers petitions for those called to priesthood and consecrated life.
  • Share the story of your own vocational choice with your children. Celebrate the occasion of your wedding anniversary as you share the story of your vocation to married life.
  • Support and participate in any school or parish vocation activities.
  • Talk positively and enthusiastically about the priests, sisters, brothers, and deacons in your parish and share with your children the stories of the priests or sisters who have inspired you and how (e.g., priest at your wedding, or baptized your children, priests or religious from school, etc.).
  • Tell your children why you chose your particular profession. Who helped you form your decision?
  • Use books and videos to familiarize your children with saints who are priests or vowed religious. Use these lives of the saints as a springboard for discussion on these lifestyles.
  • Utilize opportunities to share your vocation as parents: what you value, how you came to that decision, and the importance of faith in your life.
  • Visit Churches and Shrines while on vacation and offer prayers together as a family.
  • Witness to your own vocation by telling stories about how you fell in love. Let the children see the love and care that parents have for each other.
  • XYZ is the end of the alphabet, but certainly not the end of ways or ideas to foster vocations at home!

Family Vocation Prayer

Loving God, each member of our family is a special gift from you. You have given each of us gifts and talents so we may enjoy life, but also that we can share our blessings with others.

Generous men and women, boys and girls are needed for service and leadership in our church. Help us know how to encourage and support each other so we can respond courageously to this need by becoming the kind of people you would want us to be.

We know that you are with us each step of the way. Help us to trust in you and in each other. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

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